Guides
For the moments the words do not come.
Scripts and resets for your phone or the fridge. Nothing to finish, nothing to watch — just the sentence you need, sorted by the moment you are in.
- 3 guides
- PDF + in-app
- One of them is free
Open one and read a page.
Not a summary of it — an actual page, so you can see how they read before you decide.
"I need everyone to just STOP."
"I am going to sit down for one minute. I am not leaving, I just need a second."
Your own steadiness, when you are the one who has run out.
What is inside- A 60-second reset you can do in the room
- Three phrases that lower the temperature
- What to do when you are the one who is gone
"We are going to be late, put your shoes on NOW."
"Shoes on, then we go. Do you want me to help, or are you doing it?"
80+ scripts, sorted by the moment you are actually in.
What is inside- 80+ scripts by moment, not by theory
- What to say instead of "because I said so"
- The phrases to retire, and what replaces them
"One... two..."
"I am going to help you do it. Shall we do it together, or do you want to go first?"
The 30 seconds that decide the tone of the next hour.
What is inside- Why counting teaches waiting until three
- Five alternatives that give a real choice
- A card for the fridge, for the days you cannot think
Made to be used with one hand.
A guide is not a short course. It is the page you open while it is happening — which decides everything about how it is built.
Open in the app, at the moment itself. No signal needed once it is saved.
Every guide comes as a PDF. Several parents print the reset card and leave it where they will see it.
Sorted by the moment, not by theory. You look up what is happening, not what it is called.
Buy one once and every future version of it is yours too. One of the three costs nothing at all.
Two other ways in.
Same nineteen resources, three different depths. Take whichever matches tonight — and all of them come with P4P+ for $27.99 a month.
Opened at 7pm on a Tuesday.
A guide is not read once and shelved. It gets opened at the worst moment of the day, which is the only place it has to work.
- One of the three is free, permanently
- PDF and in-app, both included
- Read a real page before you pay
- Yours for life, updates included
FAQ
Frequently asked questionsA course explains why something happens. A guide tells you what to say while it is happening. Most parents end up with both, but the guides are the ones that get opened at 7pm on a Tuesday.
Yes. Before You Say "Three" is a complete guide and it is free permanently — not a sample, not a chapter.
Yes, every guide comes as a PDF as well as in the app. Several parents keep the reset card on the fridge.
Yes. Buy a guide once and every future version of it is yours too.
Yes. They are written to stand alone — you do not need to have taken a course for a guide to make sense.
Yes, all three, along with everything else.
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